Dating in Your 30s

Thirty, Flirty, and Thriving: A Valentine’s Day Love Letter to Yourself

Introduction

Thirty, flirty, and thriving!

If you know you know...


It’s the mantra of every millennial who grew up watching 13 Going on 30, dreaming of a chic NYC apartment, a fabulous wardrobe, and a romance straight out of a rom-com. Now that we’ve actually hit our Jenna Rink era, it’s time to celebrate love—starting with the most important one: self-love.

This Valentine’s Day, forget the pressure of candlelit dinners and heart-shaped chocolates (although, if you want them, get them!). Instead, let’s take a page from Poise magazine and curate the ultimate guide to being your own biggest fan.

Jenna Rink in adult and kid form

"Thirty and flirty and thriving. Why the thirties are the best years of your life"

Jenna Rink

Dress for the Love You Want 💖

Main Character Energy

Jenna Rink didn’t wait for someone to buy her a perfect dress—she rocked that iconic colourful slip dress and owned the moment. Whether it’s a silky PJ set or a red-hot power suit, wear something that makes you feel like the main character. Because guess what? You are.


Jenna rink in a slip dress pink

Channel Your Inner Thriller Dancer 🕺💃

A true 13 Going on 30 moment isn’t complete without an impromptu dance party. Blast your favorite throwback jams (yes, Michael Jackson’s Thriller is mandatory) and dance like Matty Flamhaff is watching. Solo or with friends, let loose and have fun—it’s scientifically proven to boost your mood! Maybe use a speaker to help you out!

Write a Love Letter… to Yourself 💌

If Jenna could go back and give herself advice, she would remind little 13-year-old her that she’s amazing just the way she is. Take a moment to jot down all the things you love about yourself, the obstacles you’ve conquered, and the dreams you’re still chasing. Future You will thank you.

Jenna rink writing notes

Indulge Like It’s 2004 🍬

Remember the simple joys of childhood? Razzles, Lisa Frank stationery, and sleepovers with your besties? Recreate that magic—treat yourself to a nostalgic snack, rewatch your comfort movies, and let yourself be a little bit of that carefree 13-year-old again. We have sooOoooOooOOoo many sweets for you to try, and maybe have a pick & mix?! and yes....we have Razzles (well...similar at least!)

Manifest Your Own Rom-Com Ending 🎬💘

Jenna realized the life she thought she wanted wasn’t as perfect as it seemed—but she had the power to change her story. Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or something in between, Valentine’s Day is the perfect time to set new intentions. What does love (romantic or otherwise) look like for you? Dream it, believe it, and go after it.

So, whether you’re spending Valentine’s Day solo, with friends, or with your own Matty, just remember: You’re flirty, thriving, and exactly where you’re meant to be. And if all else fails? Just ask yourself: What would Jenna Rink do? 😉 Check out our amazing experience days and book for yourself.. or maybe your own Matty hehe 💖

"To being thirty, I've decided its awesome!"

Jenna Rink

Conclusion: Celebrate Love & Treat Yourself with Croft

Turning thirty is all about confidence, self-love, and embracing life to the fullest—whether you're in a relationship or rocking the single life. This Valentine’s Day, celebrate love in all its forms by treating yourself or your special someone to something special from Croft . From romantic gifts for couples to self-care essentials for a well-deserved solo treat, Croft has everything you need to make the day memorable.

Because being thirty, flirty, and thriving means loving yourself first—and shopping smart while you do it. 💖✨ #LoveYourWay #ShopCroft

Charles Croft

The Author : Charles Croft

Charles Croft is a keen observer of modern relationships, offering down-to-earth dating advice for anyone navigating love in today’s fast-paced world. With a knack for understanding people, he shares honest, no-nonsense tips on dating, first impressions, and what truly makes a connection last. A man who enjoys the simple things in life, Charles believes that great conversations, good coffee, and genuine relationships are what matter most. And if you ask him about his favorite movie? 13 Going on 30—because some classics never go out of style.

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